Sehr geehrter Ratsuchender, vielen Dank für Ihre Anfrage, die ich wie folgt beantworten möchte:
Ja, Sie haben einen gesetzlichen Unterhaltsanspruch dahingehend, dass der Vater des Kindes für das Kind und auch für Sie Unterhalt bezahlen muss.
Der Unterhalt für das Kind geht solange bis das Kind eigenes Geld verdient.
Der Unterhalt für Sie geht bis das Kind drei Jahre alt ist.
Bitte teilen Sie mir mit, ob noch Fragen bestehen
konnen sie English?
Yes of course , I am fluent#
oh this is good
so i have to go to see an
or i just have to go to Jungentarmt?
Do you want me to explain what I have just written in English
According to the law you are entitled to child support until your child has finished his or her education and is able to earn his or her own money.
The child support is according to the so- called Düsseldorfer Tabelle, which gives the child support according to the child`s age and the father´ s income.
normally i want him to pay as much as possible because we were living together and when i was in 5 months he just moved to france because he said he earn more money...he is franch and works here in germany...and now that we were speaking to pay a taggesmutter he said that he doesnt want to pay more than 200Euro...
is not any problem if he leaves in France or?
and he is franch citizen...?
Also you are entitled to support for yourself, which he has to pay until the child is three.
so i will have any problem if he leaves in France and is franch citizen?
It does not matter that he is a French citizen
As long as you and the child live in Germany , you are entitled to support according to German Lawe.
The Jugendamt helps with child support , yes but for your support you have to go to a lawyer.
ok.so even for example he doesnt work here in germany and somehow disippear because he is football playes he will be
he schould pay too
Yes of course
a last question ......do you think that i will have difficulties to get these rights????and how much do you think that would cost me a lawer?
It depends on what he is doing and how much the support is going to be.
what he is doing like what?
If you do not have much money there is the possibility that the state pays for your lawyer.
if i have money?
Wheter he is just writing letters or filing a motion.
so is good idea to go to a lawer
Well, lawyers fees are strictly according to the law.
Yes and it has to be a Fachanwalt für Familienrecht like myself.
so how much do you think that would cost me...estimate.....
Well if it is outside of court up to 1000 Euros.
ok.Thank you very much!!!Now is not to late to go to a lawer if i have this child for 29 days or?
Oh no, it is not too late.
Just do not let yourself talk into joint custody.
He has to acknowledge the paternity, though
what does it mean?
he says that he is the father but till now he didnt sign any paper
like i think here you say vaterschaft
He has to acknowledge paternity . Without that he is the biological father but not the legal father.
Have you got any further questions ?
Please be my guest
i didnt really understand what do you mean with your last answer
legal father is when he sign or?
The acknowledgement of paternity is a formal act in which he declares to be the father with all legal consequences.
and if he doesnt want to do this?
Without the acknowledgement the child is not legally his and is not entitled to any supprt.
If he does not want to you MUST go to court and sue him for it
ok.thank you very much.i just dress and go to a lawer
Just do not let yourself talk into joint custody......
What do you mean?I have an appointment on Monday to a lawyer but maybe you could give me more information to have an idea about this...So if he lives in france and work here he should pay us...?and if he doesnt work here anymore...if i understood good it doesnt matter if he lives in another country
He has also another kid in france but i have no idea if he pays for this kid or not or if he was married...but i think it doesnt matter or?in this moment somehow i know nothing about him....Normally it doesnt matter how good is the lawyer or?I will have this support 100%???
the child has my name and we still have to put the name of the father on the geburtskunde.and normally he should sign the vaterschaft...this means that he is just the father but without any right on the child or?
and the joint custody normally when and were should be done.You know i dont really understand Deutsch and i dont want to sign any paper without knowing what is ...
or i just have to decide this when i go to the lawyer?well i decided to have just me the custody and for this reason im afraid to make any mistake....
do you think that i will have problems me to get also support from him?because i understood that the child will have 100% even if the father lives not in germany